This happened back in Capadocia, Turkey, while I was staying at the cave hotel. https://wheresmike.wordpress.com/2011/10/13/my-favorite-place-to-stay-the-cave-hotel/ It was late in the afternoon, and I was sitting outside of the hotel office as I worked on a travelogue entry. I was deep in thought when an extremely cute 8 year old girl tapped me on the leg, gave me a big smile, giggled, and offered me a strawberry. I gave her an enthusiastic thank you, and she walked away. Like a journalist trying to make a morning deadline, I went right back to tapping on my laptop. About a minute later, she brought me another strawberry, giggled, and promptly walked away, and then a minute after that, brought a pretzel. Mom was nearby with the snacks.
There was no sign of this stopping any time soon, so I put the laptop away and started talking to mom. Once I did that, the girl started talking, but she still continued to giggle a lot. Like I said, she was very cute. And silly. She spoke nearly perfect English.
The hotel owner showed up and suggested that we hurry to the top of the hill to catch the sunset. The girl really wanted to go, but mom was not in good enough shape to make it in time, and asked if I would do the honors. As always, I enjoyed the desert sunset, but what I liked more was seeing how awestruck my new friend was.
Mom showed up and was similarly impressed with the view. There was amazing scenery and friendly company, which was made sweeter because they were from a place that the U.S. is not really on friendly terms with, but what I liked best was how unexpected it all was (fifteen minutes earlier I had my head buried in a computer). At that point, it was my favorite moment of the trip.
We went back down the hill, and there we met up with dad, who invited me to dinner. Even though I was looking forward to a quick dinner and then holing up in my cave (literally), I said yes. The evening was going so well, and one of my travel rules is to accept all invitations. This may have been the rare case when it would have been better to say no.
I chatted with dad while the gals were getting ready. He told me that the girl had just survived brain cancer. She dreamed of visiting Turkey in the event she pulled through, so they took her, even though he and his wife hated traveling. Along these lines, he said that when they were visiting Istanbul, they ate exclusively in restaurants serving their native food. He went on to mention another daughter, who was a doctor in the U.S., but did not like it there. The problem was not Americans, but that she had to do too much for herself. Back in their own country, they had servants to do the cooking and cleaning and, as I gathered from other parts of the conversation, everything else. I’m glad I learned all of this, as it provided context for the events of the evening.
We headed off to dinner, and since this was a small town out in the country, Turkish food was the only option. We went to the fanciest place in town, and I could tell, immediately that these people were very used to being waited on. The second a water glass was half empty, mom or dad would glare at the waiter, being nothing less than shocked that they had to wait more than five seconds for a refill. I am not exaggerating, and the glasses are only one example. They were always pleasant to me, but they were so rude to the staff that I felt very uncomfortable.
Eventually, the food came and was deemed inedible by my hosts. Too salty. Having eaten the same food the night before, I saw that one coming. I liked it, but it was definitely on the salty side. The unfortunate waiter tried in vain to explain that the food is supposed to be salty, but mom/dad (I can’t remember their names) did not understand that concept. They thought the kitchen had screwed up royally and could not comprehend that their own preferences were the issue. I gave the berated waiter sympathetic looks, which was about all that I could do. Someone of a more official capacity eventually showed up, and the final result was that multiple items were removed from the bill. It was late in the tourist season, the restaurant was basically empty, and I just had the sense that the loss would be noticed.
The girl also did not like her food. She did not pout or cry, she just said she did not like it and did not eat it. She got it in her head that she wanted “french fries”. So after leaving the restaurant, we worked our way down the street, stopping at every restaurant along the way in search of fries.
It was the same scene at each place. Dad would ask, in heavily accented English, if they served french fries. Some poor Turkish restaurant owner would answer back, either in Turkish or even more heavily accented English, that he did not know what the hell they were. Dad would look incredulous and ask again, offended by the person’s poor English, their lack of understanding as to what french fries were, and more so, their lack of said food item. In general, Turkish men have serious expressions, but at about the one minute mark, the looks on these guys’ faces seemed to say “is this some sort of joke?” And soon after that, they would notice me, clearly wondering “how the hell does this guy fit in?”
This went on for about a half an hour, until we found a grocery store. While mom and dad interrogated the 16 year girls who were stocking the shelves, I wandered off to get some snacks for my big night in the cave. Along the way, I spotted a bottle of ketchup, and on the bottle was a drawing of french fries. I debated whether I should provide said drawing as a visual aid. I could have just left the bottle on the shelf, and we would have been on our way. But I felt like instigating. These people were rude and they had cut into my cave time. I did not know the specifics, but I knew that producing this picture would somehow result in them being even more pissed off. Besides, I had already invested a lot in this search, and wanted to see just how far it could go. Not just for my own curiosity, but for my readers’ enjoyment. The things I do for you people.
So I showed the bottle to the clerks, who enthusiastically motioned for us to follow. Hopes were high among locals and shoppers alike as the clerks led the party through the aisles, and hopes were dashed when one reached down into a freezer case and produced a bag of frozen french fries. Mom made a wave of dismissal and dad unceremoniously dropped the bag back into the case. The clerks had enough abuse and immediately walked away without a word.
With that, the search for french fries in the tiny town of Urgup, Turkey came to an end. Dad seemed dejected as we headed back, and motioned for the rest of us to go on ahead while he walked slowly. I stayed with the girl and mom until we got back. I did not see them again, nor did I care to. Well, that’s not entirely true. I still liked the girl. And despite what happened afterwards, our sunset on the hill remains one of my favorite moments of the trip.